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I feel like I was extremely lucky to stumble upon Richard, and I don’t know how realistic it would be to find someone I really like, in each of the cities I regularly travel to.

Just give it a little time

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Angela:
Why would you want to duplicate him. Variety is the spice of life. A little something here. A little something different there. And do rush it. You're just getting started. You've got this. Oh, and enjoy the anticipation, not just the ride.

Late

Sorry for the absence, but work has been hectic and kicking my ass a bit to tell the truth. I do want to make an update based on the time Brent and I shared with one another this past weekend. We were able to spend the entire weekend together and were able to really talk, which we haven’t been doing as much as we should. We also reconnected on a physical level and I know we both needed that as well. It was some amazing sex, but most importantly, there were some relational, life, and lifestyle issues that needed resolving, and we were able to accomplish that. This definitely allowed me to begin the week in a much better place mentally and emotionally than I have been the past couple of weeks. So here’s where we are now, and our plans and guardrails moving forward. This was important because it signifies a pretty major change in how we’ve operated so far

1.) I’m allowed to play solo, while I’m on the road for work, without checking in prior and getting permission. Up to me going back to work, Brent did almost all of the man vetting, and was always there and joining in, at least in the beginning. Since I went back to work, I’ve played twice, while away from home, but each time I told Brent what was going on, we talked about the guy, and Brent gave me his approval to proceed. Moving forward, those “rules” will no longer be in place. Instead, I have the option, if I choose, to take the plunge without consulting him first, and then give him the scoop after the deed is done. The only restriction is that should I entertain a companion, that I do so at the hotel where I’m staying. No going to someone’s else’s place. (In reality, I will probably still let Brent know what’s going on beforehand if at all possible, but I do have more discretion to act on my own accord)

2.) the 1-3 nights a week I’m on the road there’s a good chance Brent’s GF will sometimes be spending the night at our place. Not sleeping in my bed, lol, but our guest/play room may be seeing more use. This is not a small thing for me. I love Brent more than air, he’s a very sexual being, I want him to be satisfied, and I like his gf on a personal level. BUT! I’d be lying if I didn’t say it doesn’t create some internal anxiety when I think about him being in our home and railing a fit little cutie that’s 20y younger than me. uugghh!

Anyways…I hope you’re all doing well and I’ll be back as soon as there’s anything worth sharing as it pertains to my shenanigans!

xoxo
Ang

What I appreciate most about Brent and your relationship is the equity. The perceived risks you take are equal. The rewards are equal too. Each of you are getting something out of the deal. Brent may seem to be more confident and assured but you can't assume that and dismiss it. Brent's gf is very parallel to you being with Tommy. Tommy had all the qualities that came with his youth, stamina, quick recovery and skill. Those things should and would be a threat to any husband.

This "new" agreement is an opportunity for you to adopt some of Brent's admirable traits. It's obvious to me that Brent has witnessed enough of your behavior to feel confident in trusting you. You in turn will have a better experience with your out of town hook-ups if you aren't wrestling with anxiety about Brent's gf. It feels like this discussion is another step towards greater equity based on Brent's trust and faith in you.

Think about your own personal growth. At one point you took risks that could of ended in disaster. Ultimately you realized you needed to let Brent moderate your play. You accepted that and grew to thrive in Brent's guidance. Brent gave you more autonomy as you proved you were capable of making good choices. This is another example of how Brent's trust and faith in you has progressed.

On the surface it may seem like Brent is getting more "Quid Pro Quo" but it is my opinion that Brent is actually getting a partner in you that he trusts more than ever. Neither of you want someone 20 years younger than you for a permanent situation. It's just not realistic given the place and time that you and Brent are in your relationship.

coastalkid wrote: ↑

Wed Feb 26, 2025 9:35 am

What I appreciate most about Brent and your relationship is the equity. The perceived risks you take are equal. The rewards are equal too. Each of you are getting something out of the deal. Brent may seem to be more confident and assured but you can't assume that and dismiss it. Brent's gf is very parallel to you being with Tommy. Tommy had all the qualities that came with his youth, stamina, quick recovery and skill. Those things should and would be a threat to any husband.

This "new" agreement is an opportunity for you to adopt some of Brent's admirable traits. It's obvious to me that Brent has witnessed enough of your behavior to feel confident in trusting you. You in turn will have a better experience with your out of town hook-ups if you aren't wrestling with anxiety about Brent's gf. It feels like this discussion is another step towards greater equity based on Brent's trust and faith in you.

Think about your own personal growth. At one point you took risks that could of ended in disaster. Ultimately you realized you needed to let Brent moderate your play. You accepted that and grew to thrive in Brent's guidance. Brent gave you more autonomy as you proved you were capable of making good choices. This is another example of how Brent's trust and faith in you has progressed.

On the surface it may seem like Brent is getting more "Quid Pro Quo" but it is my opinion that Brent is actually getting a partner in you that he trusts more than ever. Neither of you want someone 20 years younger than you for a permanent situation. It's just not realistic given the place and time that you and Brent are in your relationship.

You’re right in that there has been growth, in both of us and in our relationship, as our ENM lifestyle has evolved. We talked a lot about trust over the weekend, and I’m buoyed by his trust in me. It has definitely given me more confidence in myself. I still want reassurance from Brent, but I am less dependent upon it, if that makes sense. As far as my feelings regarding his gf, I don’t see it as “Quid Pro Quo” for him allowing me to explore my sexuality. I care for him so much, and I want him to live the fullest life possible. I have zero concerns that he’s going to run away with some other woman, and that trust in him is what gives me enough peace of mind to be on board and even more so, to encourage him to live a fulfilling life in every aspect. It really helps that she’s a good person, and she and I have become closer. I wouldn’t go so far as to say we’re “besties” or anything, but we talk often and a lot of the time it’s about Brent, lol. I still get the occasional pangs of angst, but there is definitely a good comfort level with her. She’s carefree in a way that I struggle to be and I believe that’s good for Brent.

Thanks for the update Angela. It sounds like you and Brent have made great strides and great communication with each other. I’m sure you’ll still keep Brent apprised of your after work adventures and Before hand if possible. This shows a tremendous amount of trusts for both of you. Your relationship is stronger than ever now and so good to see. Again thanks for keeping us updated as I feel that most of us are interested in your feelings and relationship with Brent as well as the details you provide of your adventures. All the best to you and Brent! Cheers.

You're pretty amazing! I'm a fan!

Thanks for the update, Ang!!! I have a question about the new guardrails. I know you have said you are good with him having his young, hot, tight gf when you are away, but is Brent only allowed to have sexual relations with this stated person or is he also allowed the freedom to have sex with other women if he finds it something he desires while you are away???? Also, do the guardrails apply to both of you or do you each have your own guardrails???

Rascal

He has the same freedoms as I do. I don’t place any restrictions on him. We have an unspoken understanding at this point, that neither of us is going to do anything “stupid” or that would jeopardize the relationship. We’ve been together so long and are really in tune to one another. We’ve also satisfy one another and anything extra is just that…”extra.” Neither of us is out there looking for just any roll in the hay. It’s like the old saying “with power comes responsibility.” For us, “with freedom comes responsibility.” I hope that makes sense.

“with freedom comes responsibility.”

Well said!

54321

complete sense!!!! Thanks for the response.

Rascal

A little update here. This is not a “playing while on the road” update, lol.

I’m having dinner back home on Saturday with a fella that I have been messaging with, on and off, for the better part of year. I met him for coffee once about 7-8 months ago, really liked him, and our electronic communication has been really good, but we were never able to make schedules line up. He travels internationally for work and with me going back to work too, we were never able to get together. He’s going to be stateside for the next 6 months or so working on a project and we finally are going to have the chance to get to know one another better, and I’m excited about it.

I told Brent I had a date for Saturday, and even though he hasn’t met him (Seth), Brent simply asked a few questions and responded with “have fun and be careful.” I should also mention that Brent is out of town all week. Seems our new dynamic is going to be put in place at home before it ever happens while I’m on the road.

Now here’s the juicy part. Through our texting, Seth has been very forthright in the fact that he enjoys a little bondage play. To what extent is undetermined at this point, but if you been with my thread you know that I’ve experienced that kind of thing before and quite enjoy it. I don’t know and I won’t know until our date if I’ll be down for sexy play, let alone trust enough to go there on a first date, but I don’t mind saying that the thought of it does excite me. I guess we’ll see what happens.

Talk soon everyone!

Ang

What's a little bondage among friends....

"Honey, I'm a little tied up right now..."

54321

You guys are hilarious

Great news and I’m sure both you and Seth are really looking forward to finally getting together. Should be a very hot Saturday . Have fun and I’m looking forward to your update!

Im looking forward to an update!

Date with Seth update….

So had a “first date” with Seth on Saturday evening. We met for coffee on Saturday morning after I had gone to the facility for a workout. We had a great visit and he offered to pick me up at home for our date that evening, but I just wanted to have my own car so I could leave if things weren’t going well. He also suggested we return to his place after having dinner that night but I insisted that that was moving a little fast for me and I preferred a hotel for play if things went that far. He agreed and we decided to meet for dinner and drinks at a nice hotel that is my go-to, a place I’ve played many times, and feel comfortable.

I face timed with Brent that evening as I was at home getting ready, and as usual he was so supportive. I love hearing him tell me I’m pretty. I know that’s such a “girl” thing, but I still love it and it fills me with confidence. Since I know you fellas are visual, lol, I was wearing tight black stretch jeans, 4 inch skinny heels, white blouse, with matching blue, lace thong and bra. I thought I looked nice, and sexy, lol.

Dinner was pleasant the conversation easy, with sexy overtones, but not too much that it dominated the moment. It always puts me at ease when a man is a good and relaxed communicator. As we wrapped up dinner, Seth asked me how I was feeling about the rest of the evening, and I must say that I got a little chuckle when I caught him slightly off guard by answering “well, I’m hoping you’re gonna take me to your room and give me a good fucking!” Check please!!!

15 minutes later we were in his room, I was naked, on my knees, with a leashed collar around my neck, with his cock in my mouth. I knew he was into BDSM but was surprised and how he transformed so quickly from “nice guy” to dom as soon as the door closed to his room. He had toys laid out already, as well as underbed restraints already attached to the mattress. Kinda took my breath away and it was like seeing all that immediately took me to a sub mindset. I hadn’t felt that way in so long but it felt very familiar and I welcomed it.

Hold my leash he had me give him head until he blew his load, and omg what a load it was! I can’t remember the last time I’ve been given a facial but he coated my face, so much that it was running down my neck and dripping down on my tits. He had warned me he had big loads but I’ve heard that before….lets just say he wasn’t exaggerating! It’s so erotic when the cum just keeps coming like that and the load is so thick and creamy.
After painting my face to took a warm washcloth and cleaned my face around my eyes, but not anywhere else or where it ran down on me. He then moved me to the bed and strapped me down to the mattress. For the next half hour or so he played out me using a vibe, crop with a feather on one end, and a pinwheel. It was definitely not his first time doing this, and by the time he was hard again, I was begging for him to give me his cock. He untied me from the bed, flipped me over to my front and attached cuffs to my wrist and ankles and then put me ass up, arms between my legs and wrist cuffs attached to the ankle cuffs. He then got behind me and proceeded to fuck me soooo hard for what seemed like an eternity and through several orgasms. It has been a very long time since I was used like that and god how I loved it! He eventually put another load in me, and pushed me onto my side and just left me there, bound, for a few minutes while he had me take his softening, wet cock in my mouth and give him a post orgasm sucking. Finally, he released me, we showered together, we sat and talked for a few minutes and both agreed we definitely wanted to see each other again, and soon I was dressed and somewhat pit back together and was in my car heading home.

I texted Brent (who was out of town), let him know I was good and had a nice time and was safely on my way home. All in all it was a great first with Seth, and I believe this will become a regular thing. I don’t believe he will be a BF, but I do believe it could develop into one of those things where we come together when we both need a dom/sub fix. I guess we’ll see what happens!

xoxo
Ang

Wow Angela, what an amazing and detailed update. Sounds like Seth really gave you what you wanted and needed! I especially loved the post orgasm sucking while he was going soft. Very Erotic. So glad you hit (pardon the pun) it off on your first date and no doubt the first of more to come. All the best to you and Brent! Cheers

Angela Plays wrote: ↑

Tue Mar 11, 2025 2:55 am

Kinda took my breath away and it was like seeing all that immediately took me to a sub mindset. I hadn’t felt that way in so long but it felt very familiar and I welcomed it.

Such a good girl!! Very hot recap. It's sexy that you aren't afraid to say what you need to feel comfortable in the moments leading up to the scene. This kind of communication is so important for helping you "let go" and likewise for your dom to safely own you in the moment. Bravo!

Holy shit!!

What an intense first time, glad it turned out so positive!

I've finally read all 27 pages. What a great thread, although a couple of bumps along the way.

I really liked reading a part and then being able to see a pic of the moment.

Thankyou for sharing both threads.

He untied me from the bed, flipped me over to my front and attached cuffs to my wrist and ankles and then put me ass up, arms between my legs and wrist cuffs attached to the ankle cuffs. He then got behind me and proceeded to fuck me soooo hard for what seemed like an eternity and through several orgasms.

Wow! SexEE!

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54321 wrote: ↑

Sat Mar 15, 2025 3:23 am

He untied me from the bed, flipped me over to my front and attached cuffs to my wrist and ankles and then put me ass up, arms between my legs and wrist cuffs attached to the ankle cuffs. He then got behind me and proceeded to fuck me soooo hard for what seemed like an eternity and through several orgasms.

Wow! SexEE!

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